Flirt Club:

Unleash the Femme Fatale in You!

• Tired of sitting home alone every Friday night?

• Embarrassed every time you have to ask for a "table for one" when you go out to eat?

• Do you hate cooking for one?

• Do you buy family-style meals, just so you won't get that knowing look of sorrow from the check-out clerk?

Fret no more, ladies! Join Flirt Club and you, too, can be a success! Friday nights and tables for two will no longer be a sore spot for you! Throw out your granny panties, take off that tattered housecoat and let's get started!

It's a Solo Sport! Fly Solo…Flirt Solo!

If you’re out with your “gal pals,” ignore them. The loner is much more likely to be approached. Think about it, what if you were in a group of friends approached by some men and you were the "the ugly one”?  You wouldn’t want to feel left out, so solo it is!

 

When you’re solo, you appear too desperate to reject anyone…even that guy who looked more like fungus-covered tree bark than a “man” by any stretch of the word. Play desperate or by the end of the night, you might actually be so desperate that you'll hump that fungus-covered tree bark you see in the woods off the left side of the highway on your drive home.

 

Even if it’s just the fungus-covered tree bark (the one that vaguely resembled a "man"...not the actual tree bark) that hits on you, at least he had a “wood” of some sort!

 

Sugar…no Salt, no Spice

Be nice. Be gentle. Be approachable and polite, even if the guy is a complete loser using some lame “What’s a girl like you doing in a dump like this” line and you wouldn’t let him date your worst enemy. Well, maybe you would…at least once...but that's beside the point.

 

The hotties you're hunting for won’t hit on you if you’re the ultimate bitch to that guy. (Now is way too early to let those hotties know you really are that much of a bitch. At least let a guy spend a few hundred dollars on you before you let him have a peak at that side of you.)

 

Even if the guy you’re rejecting is a jerk, be nice about the rejection. You never know how many hot guys are friends of his. Maybe he could hook you up if he's not too hurt by the sting of your rejection.

It’s Your Asset...

Use your ass and your assets. Get off your barstool. Flaunt it. Parade it. Strut it. Shake it. Grind it. Show it off. Dress it up. Bare a little.

 

Leave the prissy, prim stuff at home, along with the flack jacket! Don't arrive looking like a virginal prom princess in pink chiffon and lace, but also, don't show up looking like Madonna in the 80's or Courtney Love at any time! Don't dress too shy, too demure, too outspoken or too butch. God forbid you meet a hottie who thinks you're a lesbian (and it turns out he's the rare man not thinking about a threesome with you and your longtime life partner).

 

You don't want to scare off a man by appearances...at least, not until you've had the chance to see him naked!

It’s a Contact Sport!

Touch. Tap. Stroke. Smack. Slap.

 

To get a man’s attention, sometimes you have to hit him over the head, literally. Men aren’t as quick-witted as the average female when it comes to the subtle art of flirting. In other words, instead of the lightly placed hand on his arm, your fingers gently brushing some lint from his collar, etc……try smacking, slapping or kickboxing him. You will have his full and immediate attention, especially if that kickboxing has a few beads of perspiration falling between your heaving bosom, which puts his focus just where he wants to be.

 

This contact sport should be played throughout the evening, wherein you have multiple opportunities to touch, stroke, smack or slap…anything to make an impact. (That is, unless he has a restraining order against you before the evening is over.) The more you touch him and the harder that impact, the more memorable you’ll be to him.

 

The Secret Whisperer (No Ghosts or Horses Allowed)

A soft whisper is sexy (provided you don't have garlic breath), especially if your breath tickles a man's ear or ruffles his hair slightly. Tell him you’d like to share a secret with him. Then, as he leans in for that whisper, tell him how sexy you think your girlfriend “x” is, and that you and she have thought about a threesome, even though you both prefer men. Whisper that you've always wanted to experiment like that.

 

By this point, his tongue will be on the floor, making this an even more perfect opportunity to “accidentally” brush your tongue on his ear. (Okay that part is extra…this is the Lick an Ear website after all! =p)

Flash that Gorgeous Smile!

Make a point to casually turn in his direction and smile, sending those “I’m in heat” pheromones in just one saucy, sexy glance here and there throughout the evening. It’s in your eyes. It’s in your smile. It’s in the way you move, the way you breathe, the way you blink. You know it.

 

You just need to make sure he does, too. By the end of the night, he'll be seeing your smile and envisioning just where he wants it --- and the rest of you --- to be! *wink*

Squeeze His Proverbial “Charmin"! (AKA "check out the goods"…before you “buy” what he’s selling.)

Check him out…embarrass him with a slow perusal and a sexy, approving grin. Make him feel the heat of your gaze burning through him. Make him wonder if that look is all about heat, or if he just forgot to zip up the last time he used the urinal.

 

Once he sees that grin is all in smoldering passion, the stage is set!

Flirting gets you on the route to sex. The better a flirt you are, the better the sex…or at least the better your chances for it…or your chances at practice!

Good luck, ladies! Remember, rule #1. As a member of Flirt Club, you don't talk....you flirt!

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